Am I Straight Quiz

1When I think about my ideal long-term partner, I picture:

A. Almost always someone of the opposite gender.

B. Mostly someone of the opposite gender, but I'm occasionally open to other possibilities.

C. It varies. I could picture a partner of the opposite gender, same gender, or another gender.

D. Rarely or never someone of the opposite gender.

2I'm more likely to get 'butterflies' or develop a crush on:

A. Only people of the opposite gender.

B. Almost exclusively people of the opposite gender.

C. People of any gender; it doesn't seem to be a factor.

D. Rarely or never people of the opposite gender; it's usually people of the same gender.

3I fantasize about romantic scenarios (like dating, holding hands) with:

A. Almost exclusively people of the opposite gender.

B. Mainly people of the opposite gender, but sometimes people of the same gender.

C. Both opposite and same-gender people, or my fantasies aren't gender-specific.

D. Mainly people of the same gender.

4In movies or books, which love stories do I relate to the most?

A. Without a doubt, heterosexual love stories.

B. Mainly heterosexual stories, but a good same-sex love story can also move me.

C. I relate strongly to both, with no clear preference.

D. Same-sex love stories resonate more deeply with me.

5When I see a very attractive person of the same gender, my first thought is usually:

A. 'I want to be like them' or 'They have great style' (admiration/envy).

B. Mainly admiration, but with a fleeting thought of 'what if we dated?'.

C. A mix of admiration and definite romantic or sexual attraction.

D. A strong romantic or sexual attraction; 'I want to be with them'.

6When my friends talk about their heterosexual relationships, I feel:

A. Very connected and can relate to their experiences.

B. I can understand most of it, because love is universal.

C. A bit disconnected, like their experiences are different from mine.

D. It's hard to relate; it feels like hearing a story about something foreign to me.

7For me, forming a deep emotional connection with the opposite gender feels:

A. Very natural and is my default.

B. Quite natural and is my preference.

C. No different than connecting with someone of the same gender.

D. More difficult or less natural than connecting with the same gender.

8If an attractive person of the opposite gender and an attractive person of the same gender both confessed feelings for me, I would:

A. Choose the person of the opposite gender without hesitation.

B. Be torn, but would likely lean towards the person of the opposite gender.

C. Be very torn; my choice would depend on the individual, not their gender.

D. Lean towards or directly choose the person of the same gender.

9My sexual fantasies feature:

A. Almost 100% people of the opposite gender.

B. Over 90% people of the opposite gender, with occasional others.

C. A significant mix of both opposite and same-gender people.

D. Mostly or entirely people of the same gender.

10When I see someone of the opposite gender who is widely considered 'hot', my physical response is:

A. I often feel clear sexual attraction or arousal.

B. Sometimes I do, but not always.

C. Rarely or almost never; it's more of an aesthetic appreciation.

D. None at all, or even indifference.

11When viewing adult content, I'm primarily drawn to scenes involving:

A. Only people of the opposite gender.

B. Mainly the opposite gender, but I'm open or curious about other scenes.

C. A variety of pairings, including opposite-gender, same-gender, or group scenes.

D. Mainly or only scenes involving people of the same gender.

12For me, physical touch (like a hug) with the opposite gender versus the same gender feels:

A. Completely different; with the opposite gender, there's a unique romantic/sexual tension.

B. Somewhat different, but it's hard to pinpoint why.

C. Essentially the same; it depends on my relationship with the person.

D. I actually feel more of a spark or special feeling from touch with the same gender.

13How important is gender in determining if someone is sexually attractive to me?

A. It's critical; I am only attracted to the opposite gender.

B. Very important, but in rare cases, other factors might outweigh it.

C. Gender isn't the primary factor; personality, looks, or vibe are more important.

D. It's critical, but because I am primarily attracted to the same gender.

14Looking back, how often have I felt a strong sexual urge towards someone of the same gender?

A. Never.

B. Almost never; maybe once or twice in a vague way.

C. It has happened a few times, and it felt significant.

D. Often; it's a regular part of my attraction patterns.

15In real life (on the street, at a party), my eyes are more easily drawn to:

A. Always attractive people of the opposite gender.

B. Most of the time, people of the opposite gender.

C. It's a toss-up between the opposite and same gender; no fixed pattern.

D. Most of the time, people of the same gender.

16The thought of having a sexual encounter with someone of the same gender makes me feel:

A. Repulsed, uncomfortable, or it's simply unimaginable.

B. Unnatural or unappealing.

C. Curious, or not against the idea under the right circumstances.

D. Natural, and it's something I desire or fantasize about.

17At a social event, whose attention do I subconsciously seek more?

A. The attention of the opposite gender.

B. Mainly the opposite gender, but approval from the same gender is also important.

C. Both are equally important, or I don't really care about getting attention.

D. Mainly the attention of the same gender.

18Do I subconsciously compare myself to my peers of the same gender to gauge my attractiveness to the opposite gender?

A. Yes, this is a primary way I assess my own appeal.

B. I do this frequently.

C. Occasionally, but it's not a major focus for me.

D. Rarely or never. I'm more concerned with how I'm perceived by the same gender, or I don't compare myself.

19My celebrity crushes are:

A. Almost all of the opposite gender.

B. Mostly of the opposite gender, but with one or two exceptions.

C. A fairly even mix of opposite and same-gender celebrities.

D. Mostly or all of the same gender.

20When I dress up to 'look good', the 'target audience' in my mind is:

A. Definitely the opposite gender.

B. Mainly the opposite gender, but also just to look good in general.

C. Mainly for myself, to feel good, without a specific gender in mind.

D. Subconsciously, I'm more interested in catching the eye of the same gender.

21Comparing how I act in a group of the opposite gender versus a group of the same gender, I am:

A. More 'performative' and conscious of my image in front of the opposite gender.

B. Slightly different when around the opposite gender.

C. The same in both situations.

D. Actually more conscious of my image or 'performative' around the same gender.

22Regarding physical affection between friends (like linking arms, close hugs):

A. It feels natural with the same gender, but would feel flirtatious with the opposite gender.

B. It feels a bit more 'special' or charged with the opposite gender.

C. It feels the same with anyone; it just depends on how close we are as friends.

D. It actually feels more charged or heart-fluttering with the same gender.

23My interest level in the pop culture, topics, and hobbies of the opposite gender is:

A. High; I pay close attention as it's an important part of my social life.

B. Moderate; I keep up with it to have things to talk about.

C. Low; I just follow what I'm personally interested in, regardless of gender norms.

D. Low; I'm much more invested in the culture and topics of my own gender group.

24The sexual orientations of my friends (whether straight or queer):

A. Don't really affect me; I am very certain of my own orientation.

B. Make me aware of diversity, but haven't shaken my self-perception.

C. Have made me question or think more deeply about my own feelings.

D. Have made me identify more with the idea that I might not be 100% straight.

25How does the label 'heterosexual' or 'straight' feel to you?

A. It feels comfortable and accurate; a perfect description of me.

B. It's a good fit for now; the best label to describe me.

C. A bit limiting; it doesn't seem to capture all of my feelings.

D. It feels inaccurate or wrong.

26Before this quiz, how often did you seriously question if you were straight?

A. Never or very rarely.

B. I've had a few vague thoughts or questions flash through my mind.

C. I think about it and question it fairly often.

D. It's been on my mind a lot.

27Picturing myself in a happy, stable, long-term relationship with someone of the same gender feels:

A. Distant, unrealistic, or even strange.

B. Theoretically possible, but I don't feel an emotional connection to the idea.

C. Like a real and acceptable possibility for my future.

D. Appealing, and perhaps even easier to imagine than an opposite-gender relationship.

28Picturing myself in a happy, stable, long-term relationship with someone of the opposite gender feels:

A. Natural and desirable; it's the goal I'm working towards.

B. Like the most ideal and normal option for me.

C. Like one of several possibilities.

D. A bit forced, or not what my heart truly wants.

29When people assume I'm straight, my reaction is:

A. I feel it's normal, because I am.

B. I just go with it and don't feel a need to correct them.

C. I feel a little awkward or like it's not the whole story.

D. I feel misunderstood and wish I could clarify.

30I consider my pattern of attraction to be:

A. Perfectly in line with societal norms for 'straight'.

B. Mostly in line, with a few personal quirks.

C. Somewhat different from the 'norm'.

D. Very different from the 'norm'.

31If society were completely accepting of all sexual orientations with no prejudice, I believe my attractions would:

A. Still be exclusively for the opposite gender.

B. Probably still be mainly for the opposite gender, but maybe I'd be more open.

C. Potentially be quite different; I'd feel freer to explore my feelings for the same gender.

D. Clearly show a preference for the same gender.

32My main reason for taking this 'Am I Straight?' quiz is:

A. Just for fun or out of curiosity, to confirm what I already think.

B. I've recently had some confusing feelings about someone of the same gender.

C. I have ongoing confusion and uncertainty about my sexuality.

D. I strongly suspect I'm not straight and am looking for some confirmation.

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